Everyone has gone through it or is going through it right now, waiting on their future little. We’ve all wondered about her and when the time comes, we hope we will love her more than we already do right now. That is my current state, thinking about my future little. Here are just a few of the things I want to let her know.
5. I hope you love your crafts.
Whether you are crafty or not, crafting for someone can be very stressful. The amount of canvases and picture frames that are made for littles yearly are astronomical. I just hope they are as appreciated as they deserve to be because let’s face it, spending weeks on crafting for anyone is hard work. If slaving over 25 crafts isn’t a sign of love, I don’t know what is. (P.s. sorry for all of the cliché sorority quotes).
4. I am here for you
The purpose of a big is to mentor and guide their little in helping them get adjusted in the sorority. It can be overwhelming meeting a big group of women and there is no one better to look up to than the person who has been waiting for you and has been there before? Little, I am always right there when you need me.
3. I don’t care if we don’t have much in common
We all hear nightmares about Bigs and Littles not getting along but that will not be the case for us. I do not care if you are super into collecting bugs or if you only eat food imported from foreign countries, you are my little and that is all that matters. As long as there is a mutual respect, I am down to do whatever you want. Oh, and if we argue, just know that I will be over it in five seconds and will probably text you “love me” with a frowny face emoji.
2. We don’t have to be attached at the hip
Of course spending time with you will be important but, spending every waking moment together is unnecessary. An important part about being in a sorority is knowing that it is a sisterhood and sisterhoods are not mean to cliquey. Branching out is important so it will not kill me or you to reach out the sister who is from the same state as you. The more sisters you get to know the better! Just make sure that I’m your number one at the end of the day. 😉
1. You will be spoiled
There is no doubt that every little needs to be spoiled by their loving big. Aside from the crap load of crafts you will be receiving, your first pair of letters will be coming from me. Whether they are bought or handmade, just know they are a thoughtful gift. During Big/Little reveal, you will be receiving all of your favorite candies, cute little favors, and plenty of family pictures. If you think that is a lot, just wait until you are initiated.