10 Things A Woman Should Live By

No matter how stable a person is or how old they are, they need a road map of some sort. For women we sometimes need to be told things in order to believe it. We are complicated creatures and that is all I have to say on that matter. By being these complicated creatures we should always be knowledgeable about life. It’s how we have a leg up an the boys.

10.Know What You Are

Yes you are aware that you are a female that is not what I’m talking about. I’m saying that you to know how the people that are in your life see you. Know that you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you even think that you are. As girls we are our own worst critic and we are hardest on ourselves. So other people see us as superheros while we see ourselves as just regular civilians. Christopher Robin said, ” Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You can really do hard things!” Now if you can’t take advice from one of the greatest childhood cartoons than I don’t know what to tell you.

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9. Smiling

Cosmetically, smiling uses less muscles so therefore you get less wrinkles so everybody wins! But seriously if you take the time that you have while you’re waiting to fall asleep, to think about your life you will realize some crazy things. Like how loved you really are even if you don’t feel it sometimes. That you are someone special, because as corny as it is, there is no one else like you. They may come close but it will never be exact.With all the hussle and bussle of the world you can forget all of these great things especially when it feels like the world is coming at you full force. When it seems that no one is giving you love know the the Big Man upstairs has all the love.

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8. Having The Best Of The Best

I’m speaking of the people that you allow into your life. You do NOT deserve the scum of the Earth to be able to be blessed with all of the awesomeness that makes you, well you. This is why you should surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher. It isn’t very fun climbing this ladder of life and you get knocked down by some selfish jerk. Oprah says that, “as women, we need to be with those that support us and help us become the person we want to become. Not only hang out with those who are good for you, but be the good for others too.”

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7. Disappointment is Okay

Timing is so critical to making life work. It can be a total inconvenience or it can save our butts. Sometimes disappointments are just God’s way of saying “I’ve got something better coming for you.” Sometime we can’t control everything and sometimes that is okay.

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6. WWDD: What Would Dory Do?

Yes I brought Dory into this. Because she has the simplest fix to life. So life is going down hill and it scares you, so what do you do? YOU SWIM! Just keep swimming just keep swimming. Look now that song is stuck in your head and you have some pep in your step. You’re welcome.

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Gamma Phi Beta UC Riverside

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The Gamma Phi Beta girls at University of California in Riverside sure know what it’s like to be strong, independent women! In a sorority that values strength, these girls are becoming the best versions of themselves alongside their best friends. Check out the video!

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Running Is Almost Impossible, And 20 Other Things Girls That Are Large Chested Know To Be True

Boobs: a beautiful gift that every girl is given (mostly). No matter their size or shape, boobs are boobs and they are really fun. However, having big boobs is not always a walk in the park. Though they give us great power, that also means we have great responsibility. Girls who are well endowed go through some serious struggles that many people are unaware of because they’re too busy staring at our chests. So this one goes out to all of my girls out there who weren’t able to make the cut for the Itty Bitty T***y Committee.

20.) Wearing two bras is a normal thing, especially when you go to the gym. After all, you need all the support you can get.

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19.) Speaking of the gym, running is almost impossible because your chest is encased in two giant boobs, making breathing kind of difficult.

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18.) This is why gym class was the worst. Especially during fitness testing when you had to have your classmates watch you jump rope.

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17.) Jiggling is an inconvenient truth, and we fear it…

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16.) …But we must embrace it

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15.) You have had an older man noticeably stare at your chest, and you bought mace right after that.

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14.) Finding cute and practical bras is mission impossible

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13.) You envy girls that can wear open-backed shirts.

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12.) Shirts with high necklines make your body look like a circus tent big enough for the entire town to gather under.

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11.) And don’t even get me started on button downs.

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10.) Shirts that look cute and sweet on a small chested girl make you look like a porn star.

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9.) You can use your boobs as a weapon, which is both a blessing and a curse.

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8.) Victoria’s Secret is too overwhelming, so you mostly buy underwear from them.

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7.) Two words: boob sweat.

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6.) Breaking out in your cleavage is a thing and it is the worst.

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5.) When girls tell you they are jealous of your big boobs you want to punch them in the face.

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4.) People automatically assume you are a bimbo.

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3.) You always fell for the trick where boys would ask you to try and touch your elbows behind your back. Jerks.

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2.) Swimsuit season.

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She is making it look WAY too easy.

1.) You fear what gravity will do to your body in the future.

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Sorority Girl And Stupid Girl Are Not Synonymous

Ladies, many of us have been in a situation where somebody made an implication that all sorority girls are stupid. For those of you who have experienced something like this, I am sorry that this stereotype has impacted you at some point in your life. For those of you who have never experienced this, then you are lucky, because nothing sucks more than being told something about yourself that is so false.

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This article is not necessarily for sorority girls, because we know all of the sorority stereotypes like the backs of our hands. It is for the people who think that they can instantly judge us and declare that we are superficial idiots simply because we wear letters. Are we sometimes guilty of partaking in these stereotypes? Of course we are, but that is true of any group of people. Stereotypes do not appear out of thin air; they do, however, wrongly portray people.

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We know very well that “sorority” and “stupid’ are not synonymous. I know this because I think I, myself, am a smart individual, and I know for a fact that I have some of the brightest, most intelligent sisters living in my sorority house with me. We each have our own strengths and weaknesses when it comes to our academic endeavors, but to label any of us as “stupid,” is wrong and unfair.

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Sorority girls, just like any other individual, have values. A value that is consistent within each chapter is that of education. While sorority life is a huge component of our college careers, we all know the main reason we are at college in the first place: to learn and to pursue our educational careers so that we can find a professional career after our undergrad years.

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Sure, we like to blow off steam and maybe even skip a class here and there. Does that really set us apart from any other college student, though? I don’t think so. We also make our fair share of mistakes, but does that really set us apart from every other living person on this Earth? Again, I don’t think so. We learn from our mistakes and become stronger and better people after we evaluate them. Our mistakes are what make us who we are, and what we are is not moronic.

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If anything, sorority girls have more incentive to receive good grades. Each chapter has a GPA minimum that each member must exceed in order to be in good standing. This is not to say that unaffiliated girls are stupid, it is just to say that our chapter’s encourage us to thrive in the classroom.

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Still, GPA is not what determines what makes somebody smart or not. Obviously it measures school smarts, but street smarts are just as (if not more) important as school smarts. We gain a lot of lessons in the areas of street smarts during our time in a sorority. We learn how to strengthen our interpersonal communication skills, how to be active leaders in a group and how to properly handle strenuous situations when they come our way. Sorority girls are taught lessons of accountability the moment they are told that their pledge class is one, meaning if one person messes up, then the rest of them do. Through this, sorority girls learn that not only are they responsible for their own actions, but that they are also responsible for ensuring that their sisters are presenting themselves to the best of their abilities.

Again, this article was not an opportunity for me to whine about how annoying it is that my sisters and I are not respected for our brains. It was not a chance for me to express how I can’t “even” with this stereotype. It was, however, an attempt to break down the stereotype that sorority girls are stupid.

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We aren’t.

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