10 Reasons Why Dogs Are Better Than Boys

Guys are great and all but sometimes(and by that I mean most of the time) they’re a little too much to handle. Your dog on the other hand-always loyal, always wants to cuddle, and always happy. Now, someone might have said that a dog is man’s best friend but a dog can replace a man.

10) They want to cuddle 24/7

A dogs daily routine reveals around 15+ hours of napping. Chances are when you get home from a long day, your pup will be down for a mid-afternoon snooze too.

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9) They’re always happy to see you

You can leave to go get milk at the store and when you come back, it will be like you’ve been gone for hours. Shout out to pups for never getting sick of you

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8) No mess

There’s no one else to leave the seat up, get toothpaste all over the sink, leave dirty clothes everywhere, leave dirty dishes in the sink. Unless your pup isn’t house trained, you’ll have a pretty spotless house.

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7) They won’t cheat

Both your pup and BF will look at other girls, but who still will come back at the end of the night? Yeah, pup knows not to bite the hand that feeds ’em….

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6) Dogs can’t complain about your driving

I mean, they can but all they do in the car is sleep or stick they’re head out the window. They don’t really care as long as they can still do that no matter how many lights you run

…..And you’re lying if you haven’t had a guy complain about your driving at least once.

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Red Flags of a One Night Stand

College is all a learning experience.  Throughout your four years you will meet new people, lose old friends and develop new relationships.  For many people, a new type of relationship, and one of the shortest you will find, will form and this is the one night stand.  Whether you met him at a bar or he’s the cute guy from last semester’s history class, your relationship will only last you until the next morning when you can walk, heels in hand back to your room at 6am.  However, not everyone is always on the same page with this casual hookup.  So to keep things from ending poorly, here is a list of red flags for your next one night stand:
10. You have to be quiet because his mom is home- Now he deserves the benefit of the doubt.  Maybe he is just trying to save some money on rent but you do not want to wake up in the morning to his mom cooking you breakfast and asking what your intentions with her son are.
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9. He has a picture with his girlfriend next to his bed- Although it is just a one night stand, you really do not want to be the other woman.  While you may not owe her anything, the risk of the girlfriend calling him is enough to cause way too much stress.  You do not need that on your conscience.
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8. He tells you he is a virgin-  More power to him, he has waited to have sex and that is something most people don’t have the self control to do.  However, you do not want to be the one to take his virginity during a one night long relationship.  You don’t want the risk of making it more than it is.
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7. He takes you to his car, not a house- Maybe he is down on his luck and that is completely understandable.  But you do not want to be caught hooking up in a car with a stranger and certainly you are both too drunk to drive the car anywhere secluded.  At the end of the day, not a good idea.
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6. He has to tuck his kids into bed first- Good for him, he is clearly a very good looking older man and can pick up a younger girl.  However, he is clearly at a VERY different stage in his life than you are.  Plus you have no idea if his ex is crazy and you do not want to risk that.
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10 Upsides to Having a Long Distance Relationship

It has been said multiple times that long distance relationships never work out. Yes, they are hard and require a lot of work, but in the end sometimes, they are really worth the trouble and the worry that come with them.

10.  When you do see them, your face lights up like a Christmas tree. Putting in the effort is one thing after another, but finally seeing the person that you love dearly after months even years of not physically seeing them, is the most amazing feeling in the world.

9. In a long distance relationship, you develop a strong sense of trust that no one could ever break. In any relationship you have to have some trust, but in a long distance relationship that trust is not automatically given, it’s earned.

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8. Your relationship is more than just physical. Having a physical relationship is hard when you are so far away from each other, but along with that comes a deeper more emotional connection.

7. Independence. Not having your significant other around all the time gives you more time to hang out with your friends and not be attached to your significant other. Learning that you don’t have to depend on each other is a great skill to have when you are apart.

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6. Learning to be creative when you can’t see each other. FaceTime and Skype were created for a reason, to communicate with people you cannot see often. Love letters and emails can also be alternatives to not seeing each other, it also brings a classic twist to your relationship.

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A Letter To All The Boys Who Screwed Me Over

Dear ex-hookups, ex-boyfriends, and ex-“whatever you wanted to call our situation”s,

I’m not here to tell you how much of a jerk you were. I’m not here to tell you how much you hurt me. I’m not here to ask why everything happened the way it did between us. I’m here to thank you. Yeah, sounds weird I know. But I want to thank you for everything you put me through. Through the tears from the inside jokes we shared, to the tears from the lies you told, they made me who I am today. What I experienced during my time with you made me look at relationships in a whole new light. You taught me how to treat someone in a relationship. Sometimes, I put too much in and got nothing out. Sometimes, I put nothing in and got too much out. You helped me find that balance where I know I need to take a step back or one forward. I realized that I shouldn’t put my significant other first. Yeah, it may sound selfish but how can I better someone else if I don’t know how to better myself?

Okay I’ll admit, everything that happened between us was partially my fault. But, we’re young. We’re allowed to make mistakes. The first person you date isn’t the one you’re bound to be with for the rest of your life (unless you’re that lucky one in a million….then in that case, congrats). We were made to date different people, find the type of personalities we click with best, and the ones that we don’t. If you cheated, lied, or didn’t treat me right, I’m not taking it personally. I’m not going to hate you forever. We are learning how to love someone else while still trying to figure who we want to be.

Not only have you helped me learn how to treat others, you’ve helped me learn how to treat myself. I realized how I do and don’t want to be treated. Late night booty calls and drunk hookups are cool and all but at some point you grow out of that stage. When I realized I never found a guy that wanted more than a late night “Netflix and chill”, I realized I was looking in the wrong place. If I wanted a book-smart and clean-cut guy, I wouldn’t find him at the local frat house doing a keg stand on a Tuesday night. Or if I wanted an adventurous guy I wouldn’t find him staying in on a Friday night.

I’ve learned a lot from the ups and downs of dating the field, but the most important thing is nothing should be looked at as a regret. As cliche as it sounds, everything happens for a reason. We learn new things about ourselves and others from getting to know different types of people. So don’t stress when your babe of a boy dumps you or you find out you hooked up with a 4 at the bar last night…. Prince charming is still out there, we just have to get through all the f*ckboys to find him.

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Why Every College Girl Loves Their Boy From Home

Every college girl has one—a boy back home. He can be a guy friend, a friend with benefits, or a boyfriend.

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He is an important part of who we are before we enter college.

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He is the guy friend that may have known us since we were five. He stood by our side during middle school when all the mean girls hated us or high school when we had braces.

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Or he is the friend with benefits. He may or may not have known much about us, and he didn’t ask. He may have been that summer fling. The guy that was so hot, we couldn’t believe it that he is into us.

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Or the boyfriend. He was our date to formals, homecoming, and prom. He bought us rose for Valentine’s and our anniversary. He saw us cry when our favorite bachelor didn’t win. He made us laugh when we didn’t win prom queen. He witnessed the highs and lows but stuck around.

My boy back home is Edward*. We met my junior year of high school during soccer season. We remained friends after he graduated that year and the year after when I graduated. As the years passed, we became intimate with each other, but we never began a relationship.

So every summer and winter break, we would get together and part ways when I had to return to college. It was great my freshman and sophomore year. At the time, I wasn’t ready for a relationship. I perceived having a boyfriend as an anchor. A constant reminder of what I could and couldn’t do, and I didn’t want that. I wanted to enjoy the college experience of independence and freedom.

Also, find out who I was and what I wanted to be. My high school days defined me as an overachiever, a leader, a nerd, an athlete, and the quiet one.

I was finally able to be funny, social, stress-free, and normal.

My new-self loved travelling, being independent, and living the single life. I started to realize I didn’t want to go back home. The more I drifted away from home, the more I drifted away from Edward. The distance had defeated us. Our conversations were simply “Come over.” and “Are you busy?”

And by my junior year, just like any romance movie, my heart and head were in a war.

My head could see all the reasons why we couldn’t be together. We were both at different chapters in our lives. I wanted to explore the world. He had remained at home. I had become a totally different person. He had only known the old me.

 

My heart held on to the few reasons why I couldn’t let go. He had been more than a friend. He was someone I trusted, someone I liked a lot, and someone I wanted.

My senior year came and went. My dreams of leaving Texas slowly faded as I realized I wanted to go home. I returned home after graduation, and I am started to settle in to my new life.

As for my boy back home, he’s still there. We’ve had our fair share of ups and downs. We have a bond that has stayed strong for over five years. I don’t know what we are now or where we will be in the future, but he will always remain my boy back home.

Got a boy back home? We loved to hear about him! Comment below!

*Fake names have been used for personal reasons.

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How Can I Save My Relationship From Dying?

How Can I Save My Relationship From Dying?

Relationships can be extremely difficult for many people. Many couples continue to constantly get into countless fights, this leads to divorce and other complicated issues. The question is what can you do to save your relationship from dying? I know that I always save my relationship from dying by following simple and easy steps. These steps truly need to be followed if you want a loving relationship.

Moreover, before we get to these simple steps I want to let you know that verbal fighting and disagreement is normal in a relationship. Every relationship is never going to be perfect. Their will be crying, yelling, screaming, and even potential breakups in many relationships. Think about it, right now millions and even billions of people around the globe are going different ways. You don’t have to be one of those people though. If you follow these steps of how I save my relatioship from dying, I promise you will have a loving relationship. Remember though, even if you follow these steps and it doesn’t work out, just remember that you followed these steps and did the best you could. He or she wasn’t good enough for a beautiful person like you, it’s that simple. Listed below are ways you can prevent your relationship from dying.

1. Communicate – If you are upset and hold your emotions in, how is your partner ever going to know how you feel?

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2. Spend Time Together – It is more difficult to have a long distance relationship, you must see your loved one.

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3. Show That You Truly Love Each Other

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4. Get Your Special Love A Gift To Show Them You Love Them

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5. You Can Even Show Your Special One That You Love Them Without A Gift

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Cute Relationship Quotes That Will Touch Your Heart

relationship should be filled with love and happiness. These days, with so many divorces and breakups happening, it is a very scary world. What ever happened to the old days when a beautiful couple stayed together forever? It seems as though the past is really becoming the past, but love in the future doesn’t look very bright.

Love is turning into friends with benefits, which it really shouldn’t be. When someone shows love and affection towards their partner, it shows that love cannot exist with only one individual. Listed below are cute relationship quotes that show the true meaning of love.

1.”I love you so much.”

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2.  “He’s your first love. I intend to be your last.”

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3. “Kiss me hard before you go.”

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4. “Never take your lips away from me.”

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5. “You’re so special to me and I can’t even explain why.”

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