Why Ray From Star Wars Is Perfect

With all the fighting for equality, and extremist feminists taking everything that happens out of context, the world needed a strong female lead in any way. And Ray has proven to be the most perfect of all female lead roles ever.

She can take care of herself


She doesn’t let Finn hold her hand in a condescending way


But she’ll always pick someone up




What Being A Feminist Really Means

Beyonce told us all the true definition of feminism. Unfortunately, some people refuse to listen to Queen Bey, and still have a warped sense of what feminism is. I’m here to clear that up for you.

We all need feminism. Men need it. Women need it. Poor people need it. Rich people need it. People of all races, religions, and upbringings need it.

Feminism says that is okay for boys to cry and be emotional, and that we shouldn’t call them weak when they do.
Feminism also says that if you call a boy feminine when he fails, you’re saying that femininity is a failure. It’s not.
Feminism says that if women want to cut their hair short, they doesn’t make them any less of a woman.
Feminism says that if you were born with female parts, but see yourself as male, that’s okay.
Feminism also says that you don’t have to be born female to be a woman.
Feminism says that if women of color want to grow their hair out naturally, that’s their choice. It’s not unprofessional, or “nappy,” its their hair.
Feminism says that if men want to spend money on their looks, that doesn’t emasculate them.
Feminism says that women deserve to make as much as men for doing the same job.
Feminism says men should embrace that idea, because it also brings more value to their work.
Feminism says that women who don’t have the means to buy pads and tampons should get them free of charge, the way men can access condoms.
Feminism says that even women who can afford the “luxury” of pads and tampons shouldn’t have to.

Feminism is equality.


5 Ways Being A Sorority Woman Made Me the Feminist I Am Today

One of the single most disappointing conversations I have to have as a member of sorority and a self identified feminist is how the two can possibly exist within the same woman, as if the ideas are mutually exclusive. I find myself constantly explaining to people how I can be so in love with my sorority, but also have an undying love for the advancement of equality and social issues. Truthfully, if you had asked me in high school if I was a feminist, my current self would have been incredibly dissatisfied with my answer. I mean, I believed in equal rights but the idea of the feminist movement has been hijacked and made into a group representative of man-hating extremists and being the ignorant teenager I was, I bought into the anti-feminist propaganda. However, now that I have (or like to think I have) grown up significantly while in college and am much more knowledgeable about the world around me, I realize that I have become a proud feminist; I owe so much of that to my sorority and my sisters. In fact, here are five ways that my sorority has turned me into the proud champion of the feminist movement that I am today.

5. Sororities promote women supporting other women.

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One of the best things that ever came out of my sorority experience was the idea that women do not constantly need to be pitted against one another. I’ll admit it — I am competitive; grossly competitive and I really don’t care to lose. I’ll also admit that in high school, I spent a good majority of my time comparing myself to my female peers; I constantly asked myself if I was as pretty, as intelligent, or as athletic as other girls my age. I never backed down from competing for a spot on the team, or on a boy’s arm (isn’t that absolutely disgusting to think about?!). I always considered women competition because it seems that with as little opportunities as there are for the advancement of women, I had to constantly be better than those women who surrounded me. Since I joined Alpha Sigma Alpha, I have thankfully found a new appreciation for how much further women can go when we collaborate instead of compete. Through teamwork and good vibes to one another, we accomplish so much more and progress for one women tends to encourage progress for all, especially in the number of opportunities that are open to us.


4. Sororities both encourage and expect academic excellence.

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As any feminist would tell you, access to education is truly one of the most effective ways to empower women, and a key factor in the advancement of gender equality for all. Education, and the worldly knowledge that comes from it, have long been regarded as a grand tool of the feminist movement because education is more than just acquiring a vast amount of knowledge; education allows one to experience personal development while gaining the necessary critical thinking skills to become a politically active member of society. Education is incredibly important not only for individual economic success, but also success on a wider scale as it leads to more productive and successful members of society, causing a much wider impact on the world. Although I have always been a good student and lifelong learner, as I have gotten more involved in sorority life I have realized what it’s like to be expected to focus on your education, not only for your own benefit but also for the benefit of your community. Not only are we expected to maintain a certain level of academic excellence in our personal GPA, our sorority as a whole strives to be the best academically with our cumulative organization GPA. In addition to expecting academic excellence, sororities do a wonderful job of providing resources for success; whether it’s encouraging (and sometimes even requiring) a certain amount of study hours with sisters, providing a list of sisters available for tutoring, or connecting the chapter to wider opportunities available on campus for academic achievement sororities do an incredible job of making sure that their members succeed on a personal level in order to encourage them to go out and do great things in their community.


3. Sororities encourage sex-positivity and condemn sexual violence.

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As most know, there is a *fun* double standard when it comes to how women express their sexuality in comparison to men; it’s often more socially acceptable for men to have multiple sexual partners while that makes a woman a slut, whore, or (insert other degrading word here). For as long as I have been in my sorority, my sisters have supported my decision to express my sexuality in any safe way that I see fit. I have never experienced a slut-shaming moment from my sisters, even in situations where I would often receive criticism from larger society which includes my consensual decision to have more than one partner as well as darker topics such as sexual violence. As a society, we are quick to slut-shame survivors of sexual violence with statements referring to how a person was dressed and how much alcohol they had consumed. Not only do members support each other in the horrific instances of sexual violence, the Greek community as a whole is beginning to get more involved in condemning sexual violence and supporting survivors. From opposing the Safe Campus Act (which is anything but) to taking a stand with It’s On Us campaigns, sorority and fraternity members alike are flexing their feminist muscles and telling society that we do not stand for sexual violence, slut-shaming, or double standards when it comes to a woman’s ability to express her sex-positivity in the way she sees acceptable.


2. Sororities teach you to stand up for one another, and yourself.

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**Preach, Nicki.**
If there is one truly important feminist characteristic that I’m glad my sorority taught me, it’s my ability and responsibility to stand up for others, and myself. Don’t get me wrong, I have never been a quiet person and I have always been someone who has no problem with speaking my mind. However, until I started doing more philanthropic work within my sorority for organizations like Special Olympics, I never realized the importance of standing up for other people who may not have the same ability to stand up for themselves as you do. Of course this doesn’t mean that you should act as though you have the same struggles as them, or pretend that you have the same understanding of those struggles but it does mean that if you have the ability to be an ally to another person, you should be. Just as important as it is to stand up for others, it’s important to stand up for yourself as much as you are able to. In life, you should be your own best friend and #1 fan because you are the person that you will always have to live with. If you wouldn’t allow someone to treat your best friend the way they treat you, you have the obligation to yourself not to let them treat you that way. Sometimes people won’t like what you have to say, and they will think that you come off aggressive, angry, and bitchy (because you know, women aren’t allowed to act that way in our society) but that shouldn’t keep you from standing up and speaking the words you think need to be heard. Not to worry, the other really great thing about sororities is that they teach you how to do it in a poised and graceful manner that won’t take away any of your bite.


1. Sororities are inclusive and celebrate diversity.

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I personally get extremely irritated when someone accuses sororities of only accepting a specific type of woman. While I know there may be some exceptions, sororities as a whole do not only seek out the picture-perfect Barbie types; we are not all skinny, tall, or blonde as some seem to assume you have to be in order to be in a sorority. As a founder of my chapter, I have never in my life been surrounded by such a diverse group of women who come from so many different backgrounds and life situations. So many people want to focus on the fact that we are all human, but I honestly think that does a disservice to our community; boasting about not seeing differences, all the different colors each individual brings to the world, is not something to be proud of. Rather, it just means that you’re missing out on a beautiful portion of a larger picture. Not only do sororities encourage membership for all different types of women from different cultures, religions, socioeconomic classes, and countries but they also encourage us to recognize and celebrate those differences in one another. Sure, I understand the historical implications of our founders and the likelihood that they supported a sisterhood based on women of all the same race, social class, etc. but as our world has continued to change and (slowly but surely) become more inclusive, sororities have continued to do so as well. And let me tell you right now, I have never been surrounded by a more supportive group of women who celebrate my differences more than my sisters do.


So, this leads us back to a very important question: are feminists and sorority women concepts that are mutually exclusive? Even if I only gave you a short five reasons here, I hope that you are thinking in your head about the hundreds of other reasons that this couldn’t be further from the truth. If you’re in Greek life, work hard to keep educating people about the ways in which we are fighting for equality and if you’re not in Greek life, as us about the ways in which we are fighting for equality. And for everyone’s sake, encourage the idea that feminists (or sorority women, for that matter) are man-hating extremists. Truthfully, we’re actually pretty damn cool.


Sorority Life Fact Or Fiction: Scream Queens’ KKT

If you’ve tuned into new Fall television premieres at all then you’ve probably watched or heard about Scream Queens on Fox. Love it or hate it, there is an ounce of fact and of fiction about sorority life within the heavy social satire it exhibits.

10. Fact: Sorority girls love coordinating their outfits. 

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Everybody knows that the Chanel’s love rocking pastels, jeweled collars, and fake fur and you and your little love wearing matching lettered sweatshirts. Which is basically the same thing. Am I right?

9. Fiction: Less than ten girls live in a sorority house. 

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Normally if you’re in a housed sorority there will be more like 50-80 girls living in the house at any given time depending on the size of the house and the live-on restrictions of your campus. Normally, most girls live in the house their sophomore year with one or two roommates and then off-campus in a house or apartment their junior and senior year. You may live with friends in your sorority or maybe not. You should also consider that some sororities are unhoused and others have designated communities within the dorms. That said, Scream Queens is extremely unrealistic in the sense of the large living and closet spaces the KKT sisters have within their house.

8. Fact: Holiday celebrations are even more fun in a sorority.

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Halloween, Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day. You name a holiday and there will probably be a philanthropy event, party, cookie swap, or some other sisterhood activity associated with it.

7. Fiction: Sororities condone hazing and dangerous or demeaning rituals like hell week.

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Contrary to the media, hazing is not a widespread issue in Greek life. Whether you’re looking into rushing a local, Panhellenic, Divine Nine, LGBT+, academic, religious, or service sorority, we all report to councils and/or the greek life headquarters on campus. That said, they do not and we do not condone hazing in any way or form. In fact, we spoil our new members. We give you t-shirts, notifiers, an amazing house to live in, and a family to love not for four years but for life. Sigma Kappa among other sororities even has a philanthropy called RESPΣΚT to celebrate the benefits of sorority membership while condemning hazing and other negative behaviors. They aim to provide anti-hazing, self-esteem, and empowerment workshops, activities, and resources year round.

6. Fact: When your song comes on you drop everything else. 


The Weeknd, Nick Jonas, Miley Cyrus, Selena Gomez, Nicki Minaj. We’ve all got that artist with that perfect song that we just love to dance to, rock out to, and belt the words out to loudly and obnoxiously. Whether you’re at a function, in the house, or out in public, it is your time to shine.