Some of my best friends I have met in that house, and some of them are even amazing enough that I call them mom. There are some girls who I would give sweetheart to if I didn’t want it so badly.
I would be mad as hell if I didn’t get picked, even if someone deserved it more, and I know I would let that anger destroy my relationship. No one needs to be a sweetheart. No one needs all that fighting and bitching. Let the boys wear their letter, and stay out of it.